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Well about two years ago my husband developed a round rash all over his body. He went to the doctors who suspected ring worm and gave him a cream for it. We then moved and still the rash was there. Again he went to the doctors and they were clueless but said that it could be a STD. As far as I know he was not tested but they gave him medicine and it is gone now, but then he got a wart on the head of his penis. He accused me of cheating which I have not. He insists that he hasn't but that has to be a lie right? I decided to believe him for whatever reason but then a few months ago I went in for a pap smear. I found out that I have high risk HPV and I know from what i have read that this does not mean either of us cheated but come on your telling me that ALL of a sudden he gets this rash then a wart and now bam I have HPV? My doctor does not know about my husbands rash or wart so now I am thinking that he did cheat. Please give me advice and if you think he cheated how the heck am I going to get to the truth?

Well like the doctors said the rash could be anything and is probably not really related. The HPV though is known to stay dormant for long periods of time. How long have you been married?

I realize that but why would it spike up all of a sudden? We have been married for 7 and together for 10.

Don't know. That is pretty strange. Maybe he did do something.