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I have made several post and i am new to this... I am scared not for myself and the chance I have an STD but that I may have passed this unknowingly to every partner I have ever had... I have only been with a few that I loved very much and to think I have done this is tearing me apart... I havent found out yet if I even have it but there is a good chance I do. I have lumps in the lips of my vagina, They didn't start showing up till just recently and I figured they were ingrown hairs cause I could pop them then they would go away. Then the first guy I ever had intercourse with after I was raped at the age of 12 contacted me and swears that I gave warts to him. This has been 15 years ago. I have had 2 childeren and nothing was ever brought up by my doctors that I had anything... I dnt know what to think... I am scared and would like someone to please talk to me and help me understand if this is for real.... Is it possible to live with this not knowing for sooo long, even with giving birth? Wouldn't a Doctor have checked for this. Is this guy just mad at me for breaking up so many years ago and telling me this just to scare me>>> I am so lost

Well, warts from HPV aren't popable so I doubt it's that. It really may just be an ingrown hair or, not to freak you out, Herpes although it's probably not Herpes.

Just go get it checked out and you should be fine. As far as your other partners becoming infected they will be fine as well. That other partner is probably wrong or got it from someone else. You would have most likely have seen symptoms by now.